Sex Query of the Week: Golden Shower- From Safety Concerns to Steps Involved, Here’s Everything You Want to Know About the Sex Fetish
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Q. I am a 21-year-old fashion designer in love with this female who is still studying. I recently came across a sex term "golden shower" and ever since I am intrigued by the concept of this sexual fetish. In layman's understanding that I have received via Google search, I believe it is about peeing on your partner. However, it may also consist of peeing in front of your partner. I would like to know more about this sexual fetish and how it is performed, in fact, if at all it is a safe practice to perform. Moreover, I haven't spoken about this to my partner and am scared if she gets offended by the idea. Please help. Sex Query of the Week: Can I Get STD From Oral Sex? How to Stay Safe.

And. The golden shower, also known as 'water sports' is a sexual fetish that may also involve the kink of dominance or submissiveness. Some people may like to pee on, in front or near their partner whereas some may like to be peed on, in front or near. There aren't any rules involved and completely depends on the wishes and fantasies of the people involved.

Is Golden Shower Safe?

The safety of practising the Golden shower can only be judged by the way and extremity of it. Depending on the body part you are being peed on and other sanitation condition, you may be at risk of infections and allergies if not done in the right way.

Things to keep in mind during the Golden Shower:

  • The body part being peed on shouldn't have prior cuts or wounds.
  • You should not have any kind of urinary infection.
  • One should be careful of their eyes, making sure that pee doesn't get into the eyes.
  • Same with nose or any other body cavity.
  • Make sure that you wash well after the activity.

Steps To Perform Golden Shower

  1. Have a conversation about it with your partner and in the given case where the two are quite young, it is very important to know what you're getting into.
  2. Once you have the consent, decide the place you guys want to perform the act. During a shower would be a good start.
  3. Decide some rules if you want to and abide by it.
  4. Perform the peeing by keeping basic safety in mind.

What is the "Golden Shower"?

You must keep in mind that there are chances the sex fetish could go wrong if things don't go according to the plan. On the other hand, if performed in the right way with both the people's consent, watersports can build trust and intimacy.