The male G-spot is actually the P-spot – the prostate gland in men. It is no secret that the prostate is a serious amorous zone for men. The prostate is a walnut-sized gland located behind the penis containing tons of nerve endings and is most easily stimulated through the rectum. Now, in women hitting the G-spot is not difficult but with men, the prostate is located two to three inches inside the anus. Prostate has the same connotations as a one-stop shop button for instantaneous orgasm. Ordinarily, the prostate serves as a passing that allows a male to either urinate or ejaculate, but never simultaneously.

Women listen up. Your man would have been really satisfied with a blow job but stimulating his prostate will take him to a never-been-before ‘La La Land’. Whether directly or indirectly stimulated, the prostate gland will enhance the intensity of orgasm in men by infinite percentage. And we are not even kidding. So how do you initiate and stimulate the P-spot? Read on girls (and boys) and don’t be shy to experiment.

Ways to Stimulate the Male G-Spot 

1 Shower Together: If you and your partner have agreed upon to give it a try, it is understandable that butt play might get messy. If you want to cut down the nervousness try bathing together. Wash each other’s genitals properly. This will put your anxiety at rest as you know now that you both are clean.

2 Go Easy: Use your finger to gently massage the area at the opening of their anus or slide your tongue (if you are into oral sex). You can also use your hand to stroke it with your thumb, while moving your fingers around the shaft.

3 Fingering: Make sure that before you insert you finger in his anus, they are cut and filed with no sharp edges. Do not move your fingers in and out – once you’re up, you’re up there. It is more about massaging the prostate gland once you’re in there.

4 Indirect Stimulation: If you are sceptical about inserting your finger inside his butt, use two fingers to massage area between his scrotum and anus (perineum) as he reaches climax. The area is also known as the ‘taint’. Since nerve ending on the perineum are connected to nerve endings on the prostate, applying pressure to your man’s taint will get him closer to the stairway to heaven.

5 Importance of Lubrication: While the vagina self-lubricates, the anus doesn’t. It could be painful without any lubrication. So, lube is extra important with any butt play. Wet your fingers as well his anus with a generous amount of lubricant.

6 Try the ‘come here’ motion: This works well on guys too. Once your finger is about two inches in, press it forward against the wall of his perineum and try a ‘come here’ motion with your fingers. Either use circular motions or go side to side with your finger. Pull out your fingers slowly. Sudden movements are not great with butt play.

So, ladies, follow these ways and your man will be on top of the world. Remember relaxation is everything. It is completely normal if you don’t get it right the first time. Keep trying. Also, men, if you your partner is not interested, there are several male sex toys of various costs and capabilities. Go explore!

(The above story first appeared on LatestLY on Apr 26, 2018 03:11 PM IST. For more news and updates on politics, world, sports, entertainment and lifestyle, log on to our website latestly.com).